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Get over a loved one

This spell is best done on a Tuesday or when the moon is waxing.

You will need: 
2 white taper candles and holders 
1 red taper candle and holder 
An ashtray or "cauldron" 
A piece of red paper cut into a heart shape 
A Black Pen 
A piece of Rose Quartz

Place the taper candles out like this: (W) (R) (W) Cast your circle and light the left white candle first then the right white candle and then the red candle. Write the persons name on the paper and burn over the red candle while saying:

"I burn thy name so it shall be, 
Cast out of my memory, (Person's Name), 
you name is as cold as ice, 
To get over you would be nice."

Now think to yourself about getting over the loved one and leading a happy life without them in it. Thank the elements and close the circle Happy Casting :-)

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SPELL TO SEPERATE TWO PEOPLE WHO WISH TO BE FREE OF EACH OTHER

Small issues can be handled in a magic circle, whereas larger issues may need a full ritual. 
You will need: 
Two black candles, a long black ribbon, black gloves, scissors, the cauldron or a fireproof 
Bowl containing small amount of alcohol a taper and a lighter to light it a silver bell 
To Proceed: 
Cleanse and consecrate all items. 
Dress the candles with the oil in the manner to send negativity away from you, then light them. 
Hold each end of the ribbon and name the ends for the two people to be separated 
Pass the silver bell over the altar several times, until you feel you are in tune with the 
Universal energies of love and peace. Anger is not a luxury afforded to you in the situation. 
Put on the black gloves and say: 
"I call upon the energies of Universal balance 
I call upon the ancient energies of my people 
I call upon the living essence of the Morrigan 
Underworld and heaven 
Land and sea 
I waken these energies unto me. 
Witness now that I renounce and sever 
Break bonds and connections with ______ 
By all powers that are One Power 
May the great sisters of karma now weave anew 
And separate me from you 
As I will, so mote it be!" 
Cut the ribbon. Say: "It is so." Light the cauldron. 
Burn both pieces of ribbon by dipping into the alcohol and carefully lighting with a taper. 
Place the ashes and all leanings in a box and keep in case the spell is to be reversed.http://www.khakani.com/freemagicspells/freemagicriddingspells_2.html

To Attract Others of Like Mind

Items you need:

orange candle
vanilla oil
needle & thread
6 sunflower seeds (soaked overnight in water to soften the outer shell)
Anoint the candle with vanilla oil and light it. As it burns, chant:

Come from here and come from there
People whom my ideals share
Come one, come now, come all to me
By Sun, Wind, Earth, and Shining Sea!

Thread the needle and string through the first sunflower seed say:

With seed one, the spells begun

String the second seed, saying:

With seed two, my wish comes true

With the third:

With seed three, it comes to me

Fourth:

With seed four, it’s at my door

Fifth:

With seed five, it grows and thrives

And with the sixth seed:

With seed six, the spell is fixed

Knot the ends of the thread together to form a ring Rub a little vanilla oil into the center of the seed ring, and leave It by the candle until it burns out. Carry the ring with you as a charm to attract others of like mind. 

Source: Everyday Magic: Spells & Rituals for Modern Living by Dorothy Morrison

 Grab 2 red candles and carve your name into one and the name of the one you desire into thee other. If you don't know or have a specific person carve " True love" .  Charge your candle with desire oil. Then put the candles about 3 feet apart. Light the candles and each day bring them closer for 7 days. When you are finished wrap the candles up with red paper or red cloth and bury them at your front door.